But love isn't going to threaten to withhold by itself if it won't get what it would like. Love isn't going to say, right or indirectly, "In case you are a bad boy, Mommy is not going to love you any more." Love does not say, "Daddy's minor girl does not do that." Love isn't going to say, "If you'd like to be loved, you must be nice," or "Do what I